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Inside the vault today:
One year since moving to Dubai, hereās what Iāve learned (or learnt š¤·š½āāļø)
Meme of the week
Black coffee briefing: a dua that changed my life

Remember when we had to wear masks on planes? FOR THE ENTIRE JOURNEY?!
this pic was taken just over a year ago, when i moved myself and the family from the concrete jungle to the UAE.
I didnāt know what the next year would hold, but i knew i had to make the move and fight the comfort of staying stagnant.
Would FG still exist? Will i be able to drive on the other side of the road? Will my kids have american accents?
yes, yes, and yes.
But more importantly, i wanna share 3 things i learnt when diving head-first into one of the biggest life-changing decisions iāve made:
Have complete conviction that AllÄh will aid you
i didnt necessarily know how i was gonna make it work moving to a different country.
i knew that by moving away i was cutting off one of the primary ways we monetize fg: the live events.
But what i did know is that i was doing it for a good reason (family, kids, safety, bizniz etc.)
and most importantly i had complete conviction that AllÄh will aid me.
like to the point that i was excited to see how He was going to do it.
Has AllÄh let you down yet, ever?!
if thatās the precedent then iāll be just fine. He is my Lord, He is my Provider, and He is all i need.
Be action-oriented
ever heard that saying that everyone has the million dollar idea but the difference is those who actually do it?
i probably butchered the saying but the point is that for many of us, we are our own biggest weakness.
We get in the way of ourselves.
Our best opportunities could be on the other side of a simple action.
This was true for me when getting the opportunity to run Tarteelās marketing dept.
My friend told me they were looking for someone and you know what i did? took action.
i sent one simple email.
Imagine if i just put it off? You never know which email/phone call/business is gonna be the action that opens up opportunities.

Itās important to have a good support system
as humans weāre not built to go at everything alone.
look at the emphasis put on companionship in the seerah as one example.
a huge part of me being able to get onto my feet here was the people around me.
A supportive wife
brothers who would show me around
a community in the masjid
my siblings and family back home checking in on me
the brothers from back home not kicking me out of the whatsapp group
there is honour in being independent, but donāt be afraid to lean on others too.

Up your pinky game
if you caught the recent tarteel IG live, youāll have noticed i wasnāt being shy giving my pinky some camera time š

thatās cos the guys at Zahabi hooked a brother up with some elite level mens rings. Zahabi are a jewellery brand who sell men's rings for daily wear, for occasions such as your nikah or Eid and theyāre giving Freshly grounded listeners and viewers 20% off with FG20 at checkout.
Hereās a link to my fav ring (the one i was wearing)

Meme of the Week


āļø The Black Coffee Briefings:
Bullet-point rundown of news, updates, and caffeinated contemplations:

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